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"Why Aren't You Married?"
Answers to the Question Everyone Asks

Chapter Two

There is an endless list of reasons why unmarried partners might not be married -- some by choice, some not, some for the long-term, some temporarily until the time is right to tie the knot. This chapter explores the ten most common reasons couples aren't married, based on in-depth interviews with 100 unmarried partners around the country

The chapter includes stories and quotes to provide details on the ten most common reasons unmarried couples aren't married, can't marry, or haven't tied the knot yet:

1. Living together as a step between dating and marriage
2. The time isn't right
3. Don't want to become a wife (or husband)
4. To avoid divorce
5. To stay away from City Hall
6. Financial reasons
7. Religious reasons
8. Marriage doesn't represent the relationship
9. They can't
10. No compelling reason to marry

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Considering Cohabitation | Why Aren't You Married? | Pressure and Discrimination | Staying Together | Naming Each Other | Legal and Financial Protections | Domestic Partner Benefits | Commitment Ceremonies | Unmarried With Children | To Marry or Not? | Cohabitation's Past and Future


 
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   

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Living together may once have been scandalous, but today itıs become the way most people begin partnered life with the person they love. From bustling cities to leafy suburbs, on small-town streets and winding dirt roads, people are living with unmarried partners. There are eleven million cohabitors in the United States today, a tenfold increase since 1960. If unmarried couples all lived in the same city, it would have a population larger than New York City and Chicago combined...
     - From the introduction toUnmarried to Each Other