"Dorian Solot and Marshall Miller have created the indispensable guide for anyone contemplating or currently living with a partner... Nearly every conceivable emotional, practical, and legal mater of concern is addressed with insight, depth, and imagination. With more than twenty years under my belt working with people in an array of committed relationship styles, I was struck by the abundance of refreshingly new ideas and techniques. If you're planning to exchange keys anytime soon, Unmarried to Each Other is a must read."
- Joy Davidson, Ph.D., psychologist, sex therapist, advice columnist

"Unmarried to Each Other is a book that every person who is cohabiting, thinking of cohabiting or has someone dear to them who cohabits, should read. If one of my children tells me they are going to live with a partner, the next thing I will do is go and get them a copy of this book!"
- Pepper Schwartz, Ph.D., author, Love Between Equals: How Peer Marriage Really Works

"Despite the fact that unmarried couples have long been one of the fastest growing components of American society, our laws, mores, and prejudices continue to favor the married. Something clearly needs to change. Enter this heartfelt bugle call of a book proclaiming that a new day of fairness and respect is dawning for all couples, even those who happen to be unmarried to each other."
- Ralph Warner, co-author of Living Together: A Legal Guide for Unmarried Couples

"Dorian Solot and Marshall Miller have played a ground-breaking role in educating policy-makers and the public about the changing role of cohabitation in modern America. Now they argue that it's time to stop wishing such family relationships would go away and start figuring out how best to make them work."
- Stephanie Coontz, author, The Way We Really Are: Coming to Terms with America's Changing Families

"Dorian Solot and Marshall Miller sought an organization for "cohabs," of even a good reference book. Finding neither, in 1998 they founded the Boston-based Alternatives to Marriage Project. Now they've written the guidebook, and it's a triumph. Unmarried to Each Other contains just about everything cohabs (and prospective cohabs) needs to know."
- Tom Flynn, Free Inquiry, Spring 2003

"Look in Food for Thought's [an Amherst, MA bookstore] window and you'll see the latest in critical, avant-garde, world-conscious writing: titles like Unmarried to Each Other: The Essential Guide to Living Together..."
- Stephanie Kraft, The Valley Advocate, March 13, 2003

"The style ... is easy to read, and the content is laid out in a very 'user friendly' way. It is a simple matter to find specific information, but the work's warm style is such that it can even be read 'cover to cover,' like a novel."
- Jone Devlin, The Texas Triangle, January 9, 2003