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First Comes Love, Then Comes Living Together: Cohabitation's Past and Future
Chapter Eleven

Cohabitation has skyrocketed in recent decades, but the idea isn't as new as you might think. The last chapter of Unmarried to Each Other explores the history of cohabitation, explains where we are today, and points toward a future that embraces and supports relationships and families, married or not. You'll learn:

- How "marriage" in ancient Egypt was more like cohabitation

- How committed, unmarried relationships were perfectly acceptable throughout most of history, from early Judaism to 18th century Scotland to many Native American tribes

- How some pundits "lie with statistics" in their doomsday predictions about the future of marriage and family

- The top ten states and cities for cohabitation

- How many cohabiting couples ultimately get married, break up, or stay together unmarried

- How Canada, France, and Sweden are leaving the U.S. in the dust when it comes to keeping up with the realities of families today

- Why supposedly "pro-family" American policies actually harm children and adult

- 10 laws and policies that need to be changed in order to treat all families fairly, married and unmarried

- What you can do to make a difference in the family diversity movement

Want to "look inside" this chapter? You can download four pages of it (as an Adobe Acrobat file) here.

Go back to the full chapter list, or chose from the chapter topics below:

Considering Cohabitation | Why Aren't You Married? | Pressure and Discrimination | Staying Together | Naming Each Other | Legal and Financial Protections | Domestic Partner Benefits | Commitment Ceremonies | Unmarried With Children | To Marry or Not? | Cohabitation's Past and Future


 
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   

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For me, living together is very comfortable. You have the ease of a companion in your home. You have somebody there to get you medicine if you have a headache, somebody with whom you can process your day. Human beings who are in successful partnerships do better. They have comfort, stability, familiarity, all of which are of real value.
     - Nancy, quoted in Unmarried to Each Other